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Break the Failure Habit: 3 Major Reasons why you should Stop Complaining

December 20, 2016 by Ray L. 3 Comments

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As we grew up, we learned that certain bad habits can bring disaster and that we should avoid them at all costs. We learned that smoking can cause cancer, that leading a sedentary lifestyle and eating unhealthy food brings all sorts of diseases, and that bad financial habits lead to money problems. Aside from those, there is one psychological habit that’s just as horrible. If you have a habit of complaining about problems and inconveniences every change you get, you could be setting yourself up for failure. Here are three BIG reasons why you should stop complaining as soon as possible!

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“Bakit hindi ko makamit ang Tagumpay?” Pitong dahilan kung bakit ikaw ay Nabibigo

October 4, 2016 by Ray L. 2 Comments

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“Magsikap ka at ikaw ay magtatagumpay.” Ilan nga ba sa atin ang nakarinig at sumunod doon sa payong iyon at umasa dito? Nagoovertime ka at nagdadagdag ng oras sa trabaho para makakuha pa ng extrang pera. Pagod at stressed ka sa pagtrabaho araw-araw, pero parang walang nagbabago. Tinanong mo na ba sa sarili mo “bakit hindi ko pa makamit ang tagumpay?” Kahit napakahalaga ng pagsisikap at seryosong pagpupunyagi ay kailangan, ang realidad ay mas-komplikado. Ito ang pitong dahilan kung bakit hindi mo pa nakakamit ang tagumpay.

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“Why am I not successful?” 7 reasons why you might be Failing

October 4, 2016 by Ray L. 4 Comments

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“Work hard and you’ll become successful.” How many of us have heard that advice and followed it hoping that it’d work? You work overtime and you put in extra hours to get some extra cash. You’re tired and stressed from working hard day after day, yet nothing seems to change. “Why am I not successful yet” you ask? While hard work and serious effort is indeed important, reality is far more complex. Here are seven reasons why you still haven’t made it.

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Natatakot ka ba sa Tagumpay?

May 3, 2016 by Ray L. Leave a Comment

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Marami sa atin ang nangangarap na tumira sa malaki at magandang mansion, kumita ng napakaraming pera, magkaroon ng maraming kaibigan, at magkaroon ng mapagmahal na pamilya… pero ang isang dahilan kung bakit hindi natin ito nakakamit ay dahil marami sa atin ay lihim na natatakot sa tagumpay.

Kung titiyakin ko pa, marami sa atin ang natatakot sa kailangan nating gawin upang magtagumpay. Natatakot tayong iwanan ang mga nakasanayan natin at natatakot din tayong sumubok sa mga bagong gawain upang makamit ang mas-nakabubuti.

Kapag iniisip natin ang masaganang buhay, pinagdududahan din natin ang ating sariling kakayahan at naiisip lang natin ang mga dahilan kung bakit HINDI natin ito kaya. Ang mansion, ang kayamanan, at ang masayang pamilya ay nagmumukhang imposibilidad at ang iniisip natin ay “Paano kung nalugi ako sa negosyo? Paano kung nag-invest ako at nawala ang pera ko? Paano kung hindi ko gusto ang bago kong trabaho o patalsikin lang ako? Paano kung ayaw nila sa akin? Bakit hindi ko masabi sa pamilya ko na mahal ko sila? Paano kung mawala ang lahat ng mayroon ako ngayon?” Dahil doon, nananatili tayo sa kasalukuyan nating kalagayan, ginagawa lang ang nakasanayan natin, at nakukuha lang natin ang palagi nating nakakamit.

Bukod pa sa lahat ng iyon, marami ang nangangarap ng mabuting pagbabago, pero kakaunti lang ang gustong GAWIN ang mga pagbabagong iyon. Marami ang nangangarap magtagumpay at yumaman, pero iilan lang ang gustong gumawa ng pagsisikap na kinakailangan. Milyon-milyong katao ang nabibigo sa buhay dahil natatakot silang sumubok.

Ano ang gagawin mo? Paano mo haharapin ang takot? Paano mo mapagsisikapan ang pangarap mong buhay?

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Are you Afraid of Success?

May 3, 2016 by Ray L. Leave a Comment

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Many of us dream of living in a big beautiful mansion, earning a lot of money, having lots of friends, and a loving family… but one main reason why we don’t achieve it is because many of us are subconsciously afraid of success.

To be more specific, many of us are afraid of what we need to do in order to become successful. We are afraid of giving up the comfortable things that we have now and we are afraid of trying new things in order to earn something better.

Whenever we think about the good life, doubts also cloud our mind and we can only think of the reasons why we CAN’T do it. The mansion, the riches, and the happy family all seem like an IMPOSSIBILITY for us and we think to ourselves “What if I fail in business? What if I invest and lose money? What if I don’t like that new job or I get fired? What if those people hate me? Why can’t I tell my family directly that I love them? What if I lose everything I have now?” Thus, we stay as we are, do what we’ve always done, and keep earning what we’ve always gotten.

Aside from all that, many want positive changes, but few want to MAKE those changes. Many want to be rich and successful, but few are actually willing to do the work required. Millions of people fail because they’re too scared to try.

What do you do? How do you resolve that fear? How do you earn the life you want?

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