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Paano Baguhin ang Pagtrato sa Iyo: Ang Galatea at Pygmalion Effect

July 20, 2023 by Ray L. Leave a Comment

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Alam natin na ang pagkilos at pagreact ng ibang tao ay sumasang-ayon sa kung paano natin sila tratuhin, ngunit iilan lang sa atin ang nakakaunawa na ang pagiisip natin tungkol sa ibang tao ay nakaaapekto rin sa pagtrato nila sa atin. Kahit gumagana minsan ang pambobola at pagbibigay ng mga regalo (suhol), madalas pwedeng pumalya ang ganoong kaplastikan dahil nakukutoban ito ng iba. Kung nais nating gumanda ang pagtrato sa atin ng ibang tao, narito ang isang napakahalagang aral tungkol sa sikolohiya o psychology na kailangan nating matutunan.

Noong unang panahon sa Greece…

…sa isla ng Cyprus, doon namumuhay ang kanilang hari na nagngangalang Pygmalion. Bukod sa pagiging hari, siya rin ay isang dalubhasang eskultor. Isang araw, naisipan niyang mageskulto ng isang istatuwa mula sa garing o ivory. Itong istatuwang ito ay simbolo mula sa kaniyang imahe ng perpektong babae. Noong natapos niya ang kanyang obra maestra, sobrang ganda ng istatuwang kaniyang ginawa na nahulog ang kaniyang damdamin. Araw araw niya itong inalagaan na parang ito ay tunay na babae.

(Isang halimbawa ng istatuwa.)

Isang araw, sa fiesta ni Aphrodite na diyosa ng pag-ibig, palihim na hiniling ni Haring Pygmalion na magkaroon siya ng asawang katulad ng kaniyang nilikhang istatuwa. Pag uwi niya sa kaniyang palasyo, hinalikan niya ang istatuwa at naramdaman niyang mainit-init ang labi nito. Noong hinalikan niya ito uli, naramdaman niyang ito ay malambot, tulad ng labi ng isang tao. Binuhay pala ni diyosang Aphrodite ang istatuwa, at ito ay naging perpektong babae. Ikinasal sila ni Pygmalion at bumuo sila ng pamilya. Ang babaeng istatuwa ay kilala ngayon sa pangalang Galatea.

Ang alamat na iyon ay ginamit na inspirasyon ng mga modernong sikolohista para pangalanan ang dalawang konsepto tungkol sa sa mga self-fulfilling prophecies: Ang Pygmalion Effect, at ang Galatea Effect. Eto ang kanilang depinisyon ayon sa Oxford:

(Dagdag kaalaman: Ang mga self-fulfilling prophecies ay ang ating mga hula tungkol sa kinabukasan na, namamalayan man natin o hindi, tayo mismo ang nagpapatupad.)

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Change How People Treat You: The Galatea and Pygmalion Effect

July 7, 2023 by Ray L. Leave a Comment

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Most of us know that people act and react differently depending on how we treat them, but few of us actually understand that how we think about others will ALSO subconsciously affect how they treat us. While manipulation with flattery and gifts (bribes) can sometimes work, that kind of fakery can backfire as people can sense it. If we want to improve how other people treat us, then here’s a valuable psychology lesson that we have to learn.

Once upon a time, in ancient Greece…

…on the island of Cyprus, there lived its king named Pygmalion, who was an extremely talented sculptor. One day, he decided to sculpt an ivory statue of a woman representing his ideal of womanhood. Upon completing his masterpiece, the statue that King Pygmalion made was so beautiful that he himself fell in love with it. He cared for it daily, as if it was a real woman.

(Just a sample statue.)

One day, on the festival of Aphrodite, the Goddess of Love, King Pygmalion secretly made a wish—to have a wife, just like his ivory girl. As he went home, he kissed his statue and felt that its lips were warm. As he kissed it again, the statue was now soft like human flesh. The Goddess Aphrodite had given it life, and it had become his perfect woman. They soon got married and started a family. That woman later became known as Galatea.

Modern psychologists have used this legend as an inspiration for naming two psychological concepts on self-fulfilling prophecies: The Pygmalion Effect, and the Galatea Effect. Here’s how they’re defined according to Oxford:

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Paano Mo Harapin ang Katotohanan? : Pagsukat ng Iyong Katatagan ng Loob

October 18, 2021 by Ray L. 1 Comment

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Mayroon akong isang napakahalagang tanong: Paano ka mag-react kapag sinabihan ka ng mga katotohanang hindi mo gustong marinig?

Agad agad ka bang nagagalit? Ikaw ba ay nagiging defensive? Puro ka ba palusot, nagdradrama, at nagtatantrum o gumagawa ng eksena dahil nasaktan ka sa narinig mo kahit ito ay totoo?

Kung ganoon ka mag-react, pwedeng ikaw ay magdurusa ng husto balang araw, at IKAW ang responsable sa kapalaran mong iyon kahit puro ka palusot at pagtanggi sa katotohanan.

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How Do You Handle the Truth? : Measuring Your Emotional Strength

October 11, 2021 by Ray L. 1 Comment

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Here’s an important question: How do you react when someone tells you facts that you don’t want to hear? 

Do you immediately get angry? Do you get defensive? Do you start making excuses, play victim, and throw a tantrum because you were hurt by what they said even if it might be true?

If that’s how you react, then you might end up sad and miserable. Furthermore, it will all be YOUR fault no matter how much you make excuses and deny it.

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“Ang Brownout ay Hindi Burnout”: Tatlong Payo sa Para sa Panahon ng Pagsubok

January 13, 2021 by Ray L. 1 Comment

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Lahat tayo dadaan sa panahon ng pagsubok, at minsan sa mga panahong iyon nagiging sobrang lala ng mga nararanasan nating sakuna na halos maubos ang ating inspirasyon at motivation sa buhay. Nangyayari iyon sa lahat, at kailangan nating alalahanin na kung hindi natin kayang harapin ang mga problema sa ngayon, hindi nito ibig sabihin na hindi natin sila kakayaning lampasan.

Kapag napakarami tayong hinaharap na problema at pagkabigo, minsan mainam na tumigil muna tayo, magpahinga, at magbago ng pananaw tungkol sa mga problema natin. Kung malubha man ang kalagayan ng mundo, kailangan nating palakasin ang ating loob lalo na sa pagiisip natin tungkol sa ating kakayahang harapin ang ating mga problema.

Narito ang ilang aral na makakatulong kapag nakararanas ka ng panahon ng pagsubok.

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