leadership

Paano Mo Harapin ang Katotohanan? : Pagsukat ng Iyong Katatagan ng Loob

October 18, 2021 by Ray L. 1 Comment

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Mayroon akong isang napakahalagang tanong: Paano ka mag-react kapag sinabihan ka ng mga katotohanang hindi mo gustong marinig?

Agad agad ka bang nagagalit? Ikaw ba ay nagiging defensive? Puro ka ba palusot, nagdradrama, at nagtatantrum o gumagawa ng eksena dahil nasaktan ka sa narinig mo kahit ito ay totoo?

Kung ganoon ka mag-react, pwedeng ikaw ay magdurusa ng husto balang araw, at IKAW ang responsable sa kapalaran mong iyon kahit puro ka palusot at pagtanggi sa katotohanan.

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How Do You Handle the Truth? : Measuring Your Emotional Strength

October 11, 2021 by Ray L. 1 Comment

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Here’s an important question: How do you react when someone tells you facts that you don’t want to hear?

Do you immediately get angry? Do you get defensive? Do you start making excuses, play victim, and throw a tantrum because you were hurt by what they said even if it might be true?

If that’s how you react, then you might end up sad and miserable. Furthermore, it will all be YOUR fault no matter how much you make excuses and deny it.

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“Ang Brownout ay Hindi Burnout”: Tatlong Payo sa Para sa Panahon ng Pagsubok

January 13, 2021 by Ray L. 1 Comment

Lahat tayo dadaan sa panahon ng pagsubok, at minsan sa mga panahong iyon nagiging sobrang lala ng mga nararanasan nating sakuna na halos maubos ang ating inspirasyon at motivation sa buhay. Nangyayari iyon sa lahat, at kailangan nating alalahanin na kung hindi natin kayang harapin ang mga problema sa ngayon, hindi nito ibig sabihin na hindi natin sila kakayaning lampasan.

Kapag napakarami tayong hinaharap na problema at pagkabigo, minsan mainam na tumigil muna tayo, magpahinga, at magbago ng pananaw tungkol sa mga problema natin. Kung malubha man ang kalagayan ng mundo, kailangan nating palakasin ang ating loob lalo na sa pagiisip natin tungkol sa ating kakayahang harapin ang ating mga problema.

Narito ang ilang aral na makakatulong kapag nakararanas ka ng panahon ng pagsubok.

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“Never Call a Brownout a Burnout”: Three Tips to Survive Hard Times

December 21, 2020 by Ray L. Leave a Comment

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We’ll all go through hard times, and sometimes things get so severe that they completely drain our inspiration and motivation. Bad things happen to everyone, but we have to remember that if we can’t seem to face and solve our problems right now, that doesn’t mean that we won’t be able to get through them eventually.

When faced with so many problems and losses, sometimes it’s better to just take a step back, rest for a little bit, and try to put your problems into perspective. Things may get bad, but you need to strengthen your faith in your ability to get through it.

Here’s a few lessons to remember when you are facing hard times.

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10 Qualities of a Good Leader in the Classroom

March 26, 2020 by Contributor Leave a Comment

*Article contributed by Sergey.

Good quality leaders are in short supply these days. From political figures and executives leading a country or organization, all the way to students and children leading their classmates or siblings.

The world needs people who can step up to the plate and take on extra responsibilities. Tutors spend plenty of time making sure they prepare students for success. What are the top qualities a good leader must-have in the classroom? Below are 10 of them:

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