choices

Ang Sikreto ng mga Matagumpay: Pagplano at Pag-iisip para sa Kinabukasan

January 19, 2016 by Ray L. 1 Comment

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Pwede kang mabuhay ng matagumpay, o pwede kang mabuhay ng walang katuturan. Paano mo malalaman kung alin ang iyong makakamit? Ito ang isang paraan: Kapag mas-malayo sa hinaharap ang pinag-iisipan o pinagplaplanuhan mo, malamang magiging matagumpay ka.

Marami sa atin ang iniisip na edukasyon, pagiging anak-mayaman, talino, atbp. lamang ang nagbibigay-tagumpay, pero ayon sa research ni Dr. Edward Banfield, hindi iyon totoo. Matapos pag-aralan ang napakaraming matagumpay o mayaman na tao, nakita niya na ang pinakamahalagang bagay ay ang isang paraan ng pag-iisip: Ang mga matagumpay sa buhay ay may mas-matagal na “time perspective.” (Mainam na basahin mo ang BrianTracy.com Article na ito)

Ano nga ba iyon? Simple lang: Ang mga nagtatagumpay sa buhay ay nag-iisip tungkol sa kanilang kinabukasan. Pinag-iisipan nila ang kapalaran nila sa bawat desisyon at planong ginagawa nila, habang ang mga hindi successful ay nag-iisip lang tungkol sa panandaliang katuwaan at nakakalimutan nila ang mga negatibong epekto ng kanilang mga ginagawa.
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The Achiever’s Secret: Long Term Goals and Long Term Thinking

January 19, 2016 by Ray L. 1 Comment

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You can live a fulfilling life of success and achievement, or you can live in mediocrity. How do you tell which one you’ll have? Here’s one way: The longer your timeframe when planning (like making long term goals) and making decisions, the higher your chances of becoming successful.

Many of us think that things like educational attainment, being born into a rich family, intelligence, etc. are the only factors that lead to success, yet Dr. Edward Banfield found otherwise. After studying a lot of financially successful people, he discovered that the most important factor is a particular way of thinking: Those who are successful tend to have a longer “time perspective.” (You can read more about it here on this BrianTracy.com Article)

What does that mean? It’s simple: high-achievers think long-term. Successful people think further into the future when making plans and daily choices, and by contrast, unsuccessful people tend to only think about short-term enjoyment and forget about the long term negative consequences.
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Pag-desisyon ng Malakas ang Loob: Mabuting Pagpili, Walang Takot at Pagsisisi

December 22, 2015 by Ray L. Leave a Comment

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Hindi ka ba makatulog kapag may mahalagang desisyon kang kailangang gawin?

Nag-alala ka ba ng husto tungkol sa mga bagay na hindi mo pinili?

Nagsisi ka ba dahil sa oportunidad na nawala dahil hindi ka nakapag-desisyon agad?

Ako oo, at siguro naranasan mo na rin iyon. Buti na lang, may paraan para malunas ang pag-aalala at stress, at magmumula ito sa pag-iisip mo tungkol sa bawat desisyon mo sa buhay.
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Courageous Decision-Making: Make Great Choices, Eliminate Fear and Regrets

December 21, 2015 by Ray L. 1 Comment

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Have you ever had a sleepless night stressing about an important decision you need to make?

Have you ever spent entire afternoons wondering if the choice you didn’t take would have been better?

Have you ever regretted an opportunity that passed you by because you couldn’t make a decision?

I have, and you probably experienced it too. Thankfully, there’s a way to get rid of the anxiety and stress, and it lies in how you view your choices in every decision-making moment.
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