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Tatlong Dahilan Kung Bakit Kailangan mong Pag-isipan ang Iyong Pagkatao sa Iyong Kinabukasan

January 22, 2022 by Ray L. 1 Comment

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Hindi ko alam kung bakit, pero para sa akin kapansin-pansin ang pamagat ng libro na Personality isn’t Permanent (ni Dr. Benjamin Hardy, PhD). Hindi ko muna ito binili, pero nanatili ito nang matagal sa aking isipan. Buti na lang, pagdaan ng ilang buwan, may malaking discount at naging mas mura ang digital Kindle version nito kaya nabili ko siya agad.

Tama nga ang kutob ko. Mayroon ngang napakahalagang aral doon tungkol sa ating personal growth at self-improvement (pagpapabuti sa ating pagkatao) at natuwa ako nang husto dahil sa mga natutunan ko doon.

Ang pangunahing punto ng librong iyon, kung babasahin mo ang pamagat niya, ay nagbabago ang ating personality o pagkatao habang nagdadaan ng panahon. Kung iisipin mo, totoo naman diba? Ilang matatanda na nagtratrabaho na ngayon ang kapareho pa rin noong nasa high school sila? Ilang mga taong nasa kwarenta anyos na ngayon ang pareho pa rin ang pagkatao noong bente anyos pa lang sila? Malamang kakaunti lamang. Ang mahiyaing introvert ay pwedeng maging matatag na pinuno, at ang mahilig magparty at walang bahala sa buhay ay pwedeng maging mas mapag-isip na intelektwal. Halata naman na ang mga tao ay magiging mas-mature habang tumatanda diba?

Gayunpaman, pag-isipan mo ito.

Ilan ang nagkaroon ng masamang ugali dahil sa trauma na nangyari noong sila ay bata pa? Ilan ang mga na-bully noong kanilang kabataan kaya sila’y naging sobrang mahinhin, o naging mapang-abuso sa trabaho? Ilan ang bumagsak sa mga tests sa iskwelahan, napagalitan ng sobra, naisip sa sarili na “hindi talaga ako matalino” at naitatak ito sa kanilang utak? Ilan ang hindi makasabay sa kanilang mga kaibigan sa sports kaya tumatak ang “hindi talaga ako magaling” sa kanilang self-image o paningin sa sarili? Ilang mga mapang-abusong mga magulang ang naging ganoon dahil inabuso din sila noong sila’y bata pa?

Kung mayroon tayong mga masasamang karanasan at mga trauma katulad ng mga iyon, pinipigilan kaya nila tayong subukan ang ilang panibagong bagay, tulad ng mga mabubuting gawain at libangan (habits and hobbies), na makakapagpabuti nang husto sa ating buhay? Pinipigilan kaya nila tayong magsimula dahil iniisip natin na ang mga epekto ng mga masasamang karanasang iyon ay bahagi na ng ating pagkatao (personality) habang-buhay (permanent)?

Iyon ang pinakamahalagang aral sa librong iyon tungkol sa ating psychology. Nagbabago tayo habang nagdadaan ang panahon, at pwede nating KONTROLIN ang mga pagbabagong iyon. Pwede nating piliin kung anong bahagi ng ating pagkatao ang gusto nating baguhin at pagbutihin. Walang permanente sa ating pagkatao o personality, lalong lalo na ang ating mga masasamang asal at trauma.

Pwede tayong maging mas-confident/malakas ang loob, mas mapagbigay, at mas mature kung ginusto natin. Pwede tayong maging disiplinado at mas matapang upang tayo ay magtagumpay sa mga pinapahalagahan natin sa buhay, tulad ng ating mga career/trabaho, relationships, kalusugang pisikal at emosyonal, at marami pang iba.

Bago natin magawa iyon, kailangan nating isipin kung anong klaseng tao ang gusto nating maging. Kailangan nating seryosohin at pagplanuhang mabuti ang ating magiging pagkatao sa ating kinabukasan.

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Three Reasons Why You Should Think about Your Future Self

January 7, 2022 by Ray L. Leave a Comment

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There was something about the title Personality isn’t Permanent (by Dr. Benjamin Hardy, PhD) that really got my attention. I didn’t buy it at first, but something about it stayed in my mind. Thankfully, a few months later the digital Kindle version had a huge discount so I bought it right away. 

My intuition was right. That book DID contain some extremely valuable lessons on personal growth and self-improvement and I’m very glad to have learned about them.

The main point of the book, if you haven’t guessed from the title, is that our personalities change over time. If you think about it, it’s pretty obvious. How many working adults are the same as who they were back in high school? How many 40-year olds are exactly the same as their 20-year old selves? Most likely very few. Extremely shy introverts can become outgoing leaders, and reckless party animals can become more intellectual and contemplative. Obviously, people mature and grow over time, right?

Think about this though.

How many of us develop some negative personality traits because of some trauma from our childhood? How many of us who have been bullied as kids grow up to become extremely shy and reserved, or become bullies at work? How many of us failed some tests, got scolded by our parents, and had the thought “I’m not very smart” etched into out minds? How many of us couldn’t keep up with other kids at sports and had “I’m not strong or athletic” marked into our self-image? How many abusive adults were the result of their parents abusing them as children?

Are those bad experiences and traumas holding us back from trying new things, such as good habits and hobbies that can improve our lives, because we think the effects of those traumatic events are a part of our personalities and are therefore “permanent”?

That is the most important lesson within that psychology book. We grow and change over time, and we can CONTROL that change. We can choose what part of ourselves we want to change for the better. Nothing in our personalities are permanent—not even our toxic habits and traumas.

We can be more confident, more generous, and more emotionally mature if we really want to. We can be the kind of person who is disciplined and courageous enough to succeed at what we value, such as our careers, relationships, physical and mental health, and more.

To do that, however, we have to imagine what kind of person we want to become. We have to seriously start thinking and planning our future selves.

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Paano Magdasal para Magkaroon ng mga Biyaya at Solusyon sa Problema

August 3, 2021 by Ray L. Leave a Comment

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Kapag parang sobrang hirap na ng buhay at tila wala kang maresolbang problema kahit desperado ka nang magsumikap, minsan wala ka na talagang ibang magagawa kundi manahimik muna para magdasal. Buti na lang, ang pagdarasal at meditation ay nagbibigay ng napakaraming benepisyo na parehong pisikal at emosyonal, at pwede rin silang magbigay ng solusyong iyong kinakailangan.

Para matulungan ka tuwing mga panahon ng sakuna, narito ang isang guide na magtuturo sa iyo kung paano mo pwedeng patahimikin ang iyong isipan at makahingi ng tulong sa maykapal.


More things are wrought by prayer than this world dreams.

Alfred Lord Tennyson

(Pagsasalin: Mas marami sa lahat ng pinapangarap sa mundo ang mga bagay na nilikha ng pagdarasal.)

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How to Pray for Solutions and Blessings

July 24, 2021 by Ray L. 1 Comment

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When life feels completely overwhelming and nothing seems to work despite how desperately you struggle, sometimes there’s really not much you can do but sit down and pray. Fortunately, prayer and meditation actually does give a lot of physical and emotional benefits, and they may also lead you to the breakthrough you need.

To help you persevere during tough times, here’s a guide to help you calm your mind and seek help from a higher power.


More things are wrought by prayer than this world dreams.

Alfred Lord Tennyson
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Paano Iwasan ang Mga Online Scams

July 14, 2020 by Ray L. 1 Comment

Paano Umiwas sa Mga Online Scams your wealthy mind
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Dahil sa covid-19 pandemic, naging mas mapanganib nang lumabas para gawin ang mga dati nating ginagawa, tulad ng pagpila at pagbayad ng mga bayarin sa mga Western Union o BayadCenter branches. Mahalagang matutunan kung paano magbayad ng bills online at paano magpadala at tumanggap ng pera sa internet dahil mas ligtas ito at mas madali.

Sa kasamaang palad, kahit alam nating iwasan ang mga scammers/modus at magnanakaw na nakapaligid sa mga ATM, shopping malls at mataong lugar, maraming Pilipino (lalo na ang mas matatandang henerasyon) ay hindi masyadong maalam sa mga modus o scam na nangyayari online. Narito ang maikling guide tungkol sa kung paano makita at maiwasan ang ilang mga phone at internet scams.

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