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Think carefully: How far have you gone in life? Have you achieved everything you ever wanted? Is there anything else you want to do or have before you die?
Have you been stuck at the same job, the same salary, the same house, the same car, the same place for years? Have you thought that, if you continue, you’ll just grow old without every really achieving anything else?
What do you want to do in life? What do you want to have?
Imagine yourself at 80 years old, too old and too weak to pursue your goals and thinking about all the things you “should” have done when you were younger.
Like I said in one of my first few articles, many of us want great things in life, but few ever reach them.
What the solution? Here are three keys from W. Clement Stone, the author of “The Success System that Never Fails.” (Click Link for the Book)
3 Keys to Success from W. Clement Stone
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Inspiration to Action
“The starting point of all achievement is DESIRE. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desire brings weak results, just as a small fire makes a small amount of heat.” – Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich
Question: What is the opposite of “Inspired”?
Answer: “Comfortable.”
When you are comfortable with what you have and what you do, you will never have or do anything better.
Many are comfortable with a nice house, three meals, and a family of four. Being poor and homeless makes them uncomfortable. Working hard to become very wealthy also makes them uncomfortable.
Many are ALSO comfortable being poor and homeless, sleeping on the streets, eating food from the garbage, and begging for alms (for food, liquor, and cigarettes). Working to earn a decent life or wealth makes them uncomfortable.
On the other hand, many are uncomfortable with poverty and mediocrity. They work hard to become rich and successful enough so that they and their families can enjoy life to the fullest.
This is why I started by asking you about your life. If ANYTHING about it isn’t as good as you want, if there’s ANY room for improvement, then you should aim to achieve it.
The solution to being comfortable in poverty or mediocrity is inspiration:
Imagine the greater and happier life that you’re missing. The lives of rich people and celebrities who worked hard to earn their wealth? You can earn something similar or better if you only work for it.
If you’re satisfied and comfortable with failure and mediocrity, you’ll never achieve success.
If you are DISSATISFIED with what you have now and if you have great goals and dreams in life that inspire you, you’ll have the “go power” you need to become successful.
Never forget your goals and dreams. Make sure they’re big enough and exciting enough to motivate you to work and earn them.
“Kapag gusto, maraming paraan…” (If desired, there are many ways…)
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Activity Knowledge
“The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.” – Dr. Seuss
If you want something and you don’t know how to get it, chances are there are people who can teach you what you need to achieve it.
If you want to build a restaurant, ask successful restaurant owners how to build one and read the books they wrote to know how they did it.
If you want to have a stronger or healthier body, ask professional athletes or health experts and read the books they wrote to know how they did it.
If you want to become wealthy through investing, then ask wealthy professional investors and read the books they wrote to know how they did it. (“From Books to Riches”)
In a previous article (“The Price of Ignorance”), I wrote about how many of us waste time and effort simply because there’s something we didn’t know. The only solution for that is to learn what you NEED to know so you can avoid mistakes and get good results.
“If you’re not doing as well as you’d like, all that means is there’s something you don’t know.” – From T. Harv Eker’s Secrets of the Millionaire Mind
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Know-how
“Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.” – Thomas A. Edison
You can have the best teachers, the best books, and the best education in the world, but none of them will help you unless you repeatedly use what you learned from them well.
Like having the recipes for award-winning dishes, you won’t become an award-winning chef unless you practice cooking a LOT.
It’s the same with health, management, sales, business, investing, etc.
The SKILLS or “know-how” you will need to become great can only be EARNED through years of practice and disciplined self-improvement. Decades will pass anyway, so start practicing now!
“Hard work spotlights the character of people: some turn up their sleeves, some turn up their noses, and some don’t turn up at all.” – Sam Ewing
A Hidden FOURTH Key
“Whether he recognizes it or not, everyone has a philosophy. You become what you think.” – W. Clement Stone, “The Success System that Never Fails” p. 148
We all have a “living philosophy” from which we view and think of life. As an example, here’s three of mine:
“Learning and Thinking opens doors to great opportunities and possibilities. You can be anything, have anything, and do anything you want in life ONLY when you LEARN HOW to do it. Most often, you’ll learn that being good brings happiness, and you’ll learn to avoid evil as it brings suffering.”
“We DESERVE whatever life we have now. If we want something better, we have to work to EARN better. (The only ones who hate this are the evil and lazy. Those who live honestly and earnestly are happy to hear it.)”
“Be kind, fair, and just to yourself and to others. No double standards. Also, don’t forget that being good does not always mean showing mercy. Everyone should receive what they deserve.”
Your “Living Philosophy”
“A man’s life is what his thoughts make of it.” – Emperor Marcus Aurelius
Your living philosophy tells a lot about your character, and as Stephen Covey (The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
If you think about doing good, that you can become wealthy through honest work, and that being rich and successful will let you enjoy life and help others (by providing jobs if you do business, or help people when you buy their products and services), then you will likely become financially successful.
If you think about committing crimes for “easy money,” that you can only get rich by stealing from people, and that money and being rich is evil, then it’s nearly guaranteed that you will end up as a failure in life or worse, in prison or an early and undignified death.
Whatever you believe in life, your “living philosophy,” affects what you think about, what you do, and what you get. Make sure that yours is based on kindness and love.
Inspiration + Knowledge + Know-How/Action + A Good Living Philosophy = Success
W. Clement Stone rightfully states that the keys are like numbers in a combination lock. If any of the keys to success are missing, then you simply won’t be successful at what you’re doing.
Use them well and you’ll likely achieve whatever it is that you want to achieve. If you don’t, then it’s guaranteed that you will fail.
It’s your choice. Everyone can use the keys to success, including you. Whether you use them or not, your destiny is in your hands.
LifeWork (like homework… but for your success in life!):
What’s stopping you from attaining your goals and dreams?
- If you don’t know where your life is heading or if you do know but you haven’t started working on it, you may have an “inspiration” problem. Write down what it is that you want in life and think:
- “How happy will you be when I achieve my life’s goals?”
- “How much will I regret not going after my dreams when I’m already old and dying?”
- If you know what you want in life and are working hard but getting nowhere, you may lack the necessary knowledge. Study what other people did and read their books. You may find key info that will help you avoid failure and find success faster.
- If you know what you want and you know how to get it, those two might not be enough: You need to work harder and keep practicing until you get the correct SKILLS and WISDOM you need to achieve success.
- Your “living philosophy” or your character will create the thoughts you think, the things you do, and the life that you live. Be extra careful with your thoughts about life as they will form the basis of your destiny.
Not too late to change for the best..thank you for sharing…