One major fact of life that people take for granted is that our thoughts determine our future. Remember, we act on our thoughts and impulses, and our actions can lead to either good or bad consequences. For example, if you seriously start thinking of stealing an expensive cellphone or gadget, you’d go to jail and ruin your future. If, on the other hand, you think of things like starting a business or improving your career, then you might actually become more successful when you act on those things you think about.
Note: Before we continue, I have to make this clear. In this article, being a “victim” isn’t about actual victims of emotional, physical, or sexual abuse. This article is about the negative mindset of always making excuses, giving up, and quitting when faced with life’s challenges. Being a “victor” on the other hand is about that positive mindset where you persevere through hardships and keep looking for solutions until you succeed.
There’s a difference between having a “victim” mentality and having a “victor” mentality. Do you know the kind of mindset that you have?[Read more…]